The Life Of An Expat Is Not All Sweetness And Light

Sitting sun lounge and gazing out on your windswept and rain soaked garden it is all too easy to picture yourself with a new life in a new country, but how does this picture in your mind's eye live up to the reality once you have moved abroad? Well, this is not perhaps as easy a question to answer as you might imagine.

Probably the biggest problem is that there are such a large number of variables to take into account and so many factors which are quite simply not known at the outset. It is very easy, for example, to believe that the fact that you do not speak the language is of little importance as, in the short term at least, you may well be able to get by in your mother tongue and will always be able to pick up enough of the language in the longer term. Just how easy is it however for you to learn a language and how easy is it to learn the particular language of your chosen country?

You may also be looking forward to all that exotic food, but how is a perhaps substantial change in your diet going to affect your health? You may very well have eaten some wonderful high quality restaurant food on holiday trips but is this really the type of food you will be enjoying on a daily basis when you are shopping and cooking for yourself?

The problems are of course minor when you compare them to trying to adjust mentally to living in what is not only a different country, but possibly a very different culture. Those things which you have found both fascinating and curious during holiday trips could well present considerable difficulty when they become part and parcel of your daily life.

The majority of countries with a sizeable expatriate community develop a large support network, which frequently includes an expat club which holds regular meetings, organizes outings and events, distributes its own newspaper and considerably more. Initially this may seem to be extremely comforting but it is worth considering why the expats in the country to create such an extensive support network. Indeed, when you look at the extent to which the lives of many expats revolve around the activities of the expat community you could well find yourself asking why they live overseas at all.

In reality a fair number of expats find that, once the novelty wears off, they regret their decision to live abroad but have all too often burnt their bridges and now find that they have choice but to stay where they are and to make the most of what is a far from an ideal situation.

This is not of course true of all expats and, as an expatriate myself, I can assure you that there are also many of us who are very happy with our decision to live abroad and would not wish to turn back the clock. For many hundreds of people each year the decision to live abroad turns out to be the best decision they have ever made and one which they most assuredly do not regret. By how can you tell which group you are going to join before you make your decision?

Regretably, you can never be sure, although there are a number of things which you can do to increase your chances of your decision being one that you are glad you made.

The most important thing that you can do is to try the water and that means living in your country of choice for a fair period of time before you cut your ties with home. But the critical word here is 'living'.

It is no good just visiting your chosen country regularly on holiday, staying in hotels and eating in restaurants. Ideally you need to spend at least a year in the country and to throw off any idea of being on holiday. You have got to make a conscious effort to live as you would see yourself living in the longer term, keeping away from tourist areas and activities and integrating yourself into the local community. Live like a local, doing your own shopping and cooking and making the time to learn about the local history, culture and lifestyle, as well as starting to learn the language.

By steering clear of the expat community and integrating yourself into the local community from the very outset you will quickly discover whether or not you would be making a wise choice to move overseas permanently.

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