How To Approach Women Who Are Perfect 10s

I'm going to give you some pointers on how to approach “perfect 10's”, because I get this question a lot.

Actually, I'm not too fond of using rating scales on women. Besides making women sound like “just a number” it also makes looks seem arbitrary.

You might say so what? Well, I think it's important to know that looks are very subjective. What you might think is a 10, your smart alec buddy may think to be a 4. Or what you thought was a 10 last night after a six pack of coronas may only be a 6 in the morning. Or she's only a 10 with her hair up.

I have two ratings on my scale. Is she someone I'm attracted to, or is she not? If she is, I approach. If she isn't, I don't.

This is an important distinction. Once you realize there are really no “perfect 10's” it should diffuse some of the pressure of approaching a woman. The single biggest problem men have, when trying to get dates with women, is they shoot themselves in the foot before the game even starts. It's call approach anxiety. Most men are afraid to approach any women, never mind gorgeous, intimidating women.

Know this: almost every man has fear when approaching a woman. For most of us, it will never completely go away. So you don't get over approach anxiety, you learn to do deal with it.

The best course of action when starting out is not to worry about what you say to a perfect 10. Instead, just saying anything. Try this a couple of times. You will then realize there is nothing to truly be afraid of when talking to gorgeous women.

So to start with, say anything. Motion is better than meditation.

Learning how to deal with your approach anxiety will do wonders for you. Once you get the hang of it, you will quickly learn how to control conversations, how to communicate your confidence, and use those things to get numbers and emails from beautiful women.

The most important thing you can take for this article is this: If you want to know how to approach perfect looking women, then I'll tell you: Just walk up to them and say something. Anything you might think they will find charming.

The reason is it's more important to understand how insignificant approaching these women is. Once you understand that it's so easy to approach any woman. Then you can just try different things to find out what works and accents your personality.

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