If you are meeting a potential partner for the first time, you may feel a little bit nervous. However, the chances are, he will be every bit as anxious as you are. So make sure you are properly prepared, then relax and have fun. When meeting a potential partner for the first time, it's always worth keeping your safety in mind. The chances are, he is a genuine guy, and you should not be unduly worried, However, by taking such precautions as arranging your own transport to and from your date and meeting away from your home, you will be able to relax a little more. However, it is important to trust your instincts and if at any time during your date, you become concerned, make your excuses and leave. Find out in advance where you are going for your date. It is impossible to choose the outfit that will knock him sideways if you have no idea where you are going! It can be a great confidence boost to wear something new, but it is worth test driving your outfit at home first to make sure you are comfortable as well as look gorgeous. It never quite has the desired effect if your mohair jumper makes you sneeze and you cannot walk in those fabulous boots. Can you recognise your date from his photo or description? And will he be able to recognise you? If you have met though online dating, you may have no more than a fuzzy image to go by, so arrange for you to carry an orange handbag and him to wear a green shirt or something equally obvious so you both stand a chance of picking each other out in a crowd. If you are not comfortable being the first to arrive at your chosen venue, arrange for your date to arrive a few minutes earlier than you. Make sure you both have contact details so you can let each other know if you are held up. Wondering if you have been stood up is never a great start to a date! By reminding yourself of areas for potential common ground, such as hobbies and interests before you go on your date, you will be able to help the conversation run smoothly. You cannot expect it all to flow easily as you will both be nervous, so anything you have up your sleeve to initiate a conversation will help your date go well. Be honest with your date about whether you would like to meet up again. If you do not want to repeat the experience, be polite but firm and do not agree to another date to avoid hurt feelings. But if it went well and you enjoyed the date, say so, It could be the first of many!
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